Ways to have sex: the most important information.
In the following article, we will talk about the most important information related to the methods of having sex for men and women.
- Gaps and differences between men and women exist in many areas of life, even in the ways of having sex.
The difference in the ways of practicing sexual intercourse between men and women.
The differences lie in the different physical build between men and women and the social upbringing, but generalizing that there are differences between men and women in terms of the ways of practicing sexual intercourse may be unfair to many women and men, because many women in particular desire sex a lot and act more masculinely, and on the other hand there are quite a few men for whom sexual relations are directly and strongly linked to emotion like women.
However, we tried to find out the difference in the ways of practicing intercourse between the sexes, and we wanted to examine the differences in the factors that arouse men and women, as sexologists have explained that there is a fundamental difference between men and women with regard to sexual desire:
1. Sexual intercourse for men:
Men have a higher level of testosterone, so they may want to have sex all the time. It is worth noting that specialists have explained that a man's emotion appears during sex, and in order for a man's emotion to appear, he needs to have sex. After having sex, the man becomes more emotionally open. The sexologist adds that strong sexual desire in men may make their fantasies focus on sex only.
2. Sexual intercourse for women:
The ways of having sex for women are different from men, due to the menstrual cycle, which plays a major role in changing the levels of hormones in the body, as there are days when their sexual desire increases, and there are days when their sexual desire decreases, and there are women who suffer from hormonal problems so that their sexual desire is high all the time, and there is the opposite.
Women's sexual desire is also usually related to the man they have sex with and the way they have sex. If a man knows how to caress and give love, look into the eyes and appreciate, he can excite a woman more. However, there are also men whose sexual desire is strong and makes them act instinctively and not out of love, and this is what may turn women off.
3. Sexual arousal in men and women:
It is assumed that there is a fundamental difference between men and women in the way sexual desire is aroused. In men, physical attraction works, i.e. when seeing a beautiful girl, arousal and erection occur. But in women, it is not yet known how the mechanism works and how sexual arousal occurs.
Specialists agree, and they also say that sex in men is an instinct. A man is always ready to have sex and is easily aroused. As for women, sex is a reaction, that is, a reaction to the psychological and emotional process that she goes through after getting to know a man.
4. The difference in foreplay before sex:
Sexologists believe that men need less foreplay. In men, the focus is on the sexual organs, and they go directly to their own and their wives’ sexual organs. In contrast, in women, the focus is more on the extremities, so for a woman to reach the sexual organs, she needs long foreplay.
For women, foreplay is more important to reach a state of sexual arousal, while for men, all of these things are usually less important, and men may tend to skip the foreplay stage because they want to enter to satisfy their desire.
5. The effect of the general atmosphere on sexual intercourse:
Women need a suitable atmosphere to enter into the sexual process, such as dim lighting, music, and they want the husband to be clean and fragrant. Women are multi-taskers who can think of a thousand things during sex, and yet they enjoy it.
But for men, everything works more simply in terms of the ways of having sex. They do not need a special atmosphere, which is considered an extra thing for them, and they also do not need a suitable atmosphere to the same extent that women do in order to get an erection and sexual arousal.
6. How do differences between men and women affect the marital relationship?
Theoretically, in most cases, men want to have sex from the first meeting and even before marriage, while women do not. Men also want sex because they like the girl in terms of her appearance, but women usually do not agree to accept a man if they think that the man is not suitable for them, even if he looks beautiful in their eyes.
The differences between men and women in terms of sex, and in everything else in life, can affect them in three different ways:
1.Break up the relationship.
2.Conflicts within the relationship.
3.The couple have a mature dialogue and eventually reach a compromise.